Alternative to cleantalk for contact form and blog spam?

I volunteer with a new animal rescue, our website doesnt get a lot of visitors, comments or messages yet, prob 4 messages and 3 comments per mth at the most, for now

We use gravity forms and cleantalk, but cleantalk is marking a lot of things as spam that arent spam, GF has a new honeypot support so ill probably use that and disable cleantalk from forms

For blog comments when you unmark it as spam, the comment wont appear on the website according to cleantalk support and their solution is to email the commentor, which i told them was unacceptable and that you dont email blog commentors

I do not want to use captcha as i really despise them and i worry honeypot might disallow real people by accident the way cleantalk did

I disabled the cleantalk antispam firewall already as i felt it would be blocking real people

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I know some people disable blog comments but we need to engage with people for donations, volunteering and rescuing and i figure the comments help with seo

So which would be the best solution?

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Thanks

 

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