Basically, I created a folder manually on my server under www/ called resources/
I uploaded images and pdfs to this folder so their links would be site.com/resources/resource_name.pdf
I have a category on my posts called resources. I'm trying to create a resource archive page at /resources/ but I'm getting a 403 forbidden error because of the folder I manually created. I've already checked perms and they are all good. Changing the folder name DOES work, but I want to achieve both the /resources/ archive page and having /resources/resource_name.pdf
The reason I didn't upload these files with the media manager and create perma links is because the perma links always redirect to something like site.com/wp-uploads/08/06/file_name.jpg and I hate how it looks. If I create a perma link, I want that to be the link, I don't want it redirecting.

Rename one or the other. You can’t have a directory & permalink with conflicting names.
If you want the files you uploaded to be accessible, delete/rename your “resources” page on WordPress.